Frequently asked questions
How Can I attend a Ministry of Desire (MOD) event?
The Ministry of Desire is an invite only inclusive erotic experience. We are elated to build community with vetted guests. please make sure to apply for our membership to receive invites our upcoming events, for collaborations or to hire us @ your next event. we are open to broadening our spectrum to all folks you would love to invite or bring in as a guest. please have them fill out the registration with you as the invitee.
What is your consent policy?
Absolutely, conscious play party consent etiquette is crucial for creating a safe, respectful, and enjoyable environment for everyone involved. Here's a comprehensive guide to the etiquette:
Clear Communication: Communicate openly and honestly. Clearly express your boundaries, desires, and limits. Respect others' boundaries and listen actively when someone communicates theirs.
Explicit Consent: Prioritize explicit, enthusiastic consent for any interaction. Consent should be freely given, reversible, informed, enthusiastic, and specific. Check in regularly to ensure ongoing consent.
Respectful Touch: Always ask before touching anyone, and respect their response. Non-verbal cues might not always be clear, so verbal consent is essential. Respect personal space and boundaries.
No Assumptions: Never assume consent based on clothing, past interactions, or any other factor. Consent must be given for each instance of interaction.
Safe Words and Signals: Establish and respect safe words or signals for communication during play. These should be clearly understood and respected by all participants.
Boundary Acknowledgment: Acknowledge and respect the boundaries of the space. Understand and adhere to the rules and guidelines set by the organizers.
Sobriety and Clarity: Stay sober enough to make informed decisions and honor your commitments to consent. Alcohol and drugs can impair judgment and the ability to give or interpret consent.
Check-ins: Regularly check in with your partner(s) during play to ensure comfort and consent. Be ready to pause or stop activities if anyone feels uncomfortable or requests it.
Respectful Behavior: Treat everyone with respect and dignity. Discriminatory behavior or language of any kind is unacceptable.
Handling Rejection: Accept rejection gracefully and without pressure or resentment. Rejection is not a reflection of your worth as a person; it’s about respecting someone else's boundaries.
Privacy and Discretion: Respect the privacy of participants. Avoid sharing identifiable information or discussing others' experiences without their consent.
Accountability and Support: Be accountable for your actions. If a boundary is crossed unintentionally, apologize sincerely and learn from the experience. Support others in upholding the etiquette.
Reporting Concerns: If you witness or experience any behavior that violates consent or makes you uncomfortable, report it to the organizers or a designated person immediately.
These guidelines are essential for fostering a culture of respect, safety, and enjoyment at conscious play parties. Remember, the goal is for everyone to feel empowered to explore their desires within a safe and consensual environment.
Ticket Sales.
We are an inclusive event that celebrates femme and gender expansive folx. Our parties welcome all bodies and orientations, and we do have some boundaries to emphasize the diversity of our community.
Single femmes, Trans, NB, and trans/ NB folx are welcome to buy single tickets.
Single cisgendered men must bring a partner, lover, or platonic friend in the door with you. "Guest +1" tickets are available for all relational configurations. please have your guest Register to join mod as well. All guests must go through are vetting process
What is the Dresscode?
Dress to impress! Express, seduce or inspire. Dark, sexy and decadent. Leather, lingerie, edgy to soft and everything in between. Wearing a few layers to shed throughout the night is encouraged! The more skin exposed, the better your sensory play experience will be! Ultimately, we want you to feel at ease and empowered (however that shows up for you) which is most important!
What should I bring?
Cash will be needed to tip our Bartendar and Lovely Performers! Safer sex supplies will be provided, however we encourage you to bring your own personal Safer Sex Supplies & Toys too!
Where is the event and where do I park?
Each Location is conveniently located just minutes off the freeway. Lyft/Uber HIGHLY recommended. Ample choices of paid secure lots also available close by if desired. Please do not leave any valuables in your car.
Information on location will be sent 48 hours prior to the event.
What time should I arrive?
Doors open and close at certain times to ensure all attendees are in attendance for our introduction. please arrive ontime. if running late please contact us via email. Everyone will sign a consent agreement, Get Aquainted with the Space upon Arrival. Shortly After doors close. There will be Introduction and consent talk before play begins. and together we will be sensitive and aware of each other's ethical conduct While the Space is open.
The Event will be over by 2am, and You are allowed to leave before hand, however there will be no RE-Entry.
Do I have to Play or Participate in guided experiences?
No! Your attendance is participation. Voyeurism, dancing, snacking, and conversing are all acceptable activities, as long as you do so with respect! Playing is not required at any time, and just watching and learning is always okay, but when playing, do so with consent! Everyone is required to join in on our Welcome and Consent Circle, and able to enjoy themselves and each other after.
Will alcohol be served? Yes, a selection of spirits, mixers, wine & beer, non-alcoholic beverages are also available at our bar. We encourage all to drink in moderation and to not arrive intoxicated. Your presence and awareness when it comes to pleasure and consent is vital. substance abuse is not allowed at our event. we have a zero tolerance approach for the safety of our environment, please limit intoxicants and focus on the elevation eroticism brings. this is not a party this is a community event where we all come together to be present with each other consciously, intimately and consensually.
Im Feeling under the weather? Should I still attend?
No! Absolutely not. All guests should take an OTC covid test the day of the event, a PCR test is encouraged as well. If you are feeling sick, have a sore throat, fever, body aches or have been exposed to anyone who has covid or the flu should stay at home. Masks are optional. Full refunds will be provided to those who have proof of a positive test result. any risk of being contagious to others should be avoided. thank you.
What is your policy on phones, photo/video/recording?
Professional photography is allowed at our events, they are aware to only photograph our performers and guests giving consent. no play is to be recorded/Photographed ever!! Absolutely not allowed! We want to make sure that people feel comfortable to express themselves, which is why we have a very strict no photo policy. Feel free to use your phones before the Introduction, HOWEVER, Once the play Space is Open phones should be put away and no photos/Video are allowed.